I started writing this piece on Father’s Day after seeing my husband and daughter staring outside and having a bonding moment.
Such a beautiful scene to witness: a precious moment between a father and his daughter. I can only imagine the thoughts running through his mind.
From a little boy to a teenager, and then a young adult, he suddenly wakes up one morning to discover he is going to be a father. The responsibility is immense, knowing that her perceptions of life will be shaped by how he raises her. It’s an overwhelming task, demanding more than he ever anticipated, as he steps into these enormous shoes, bearing the weight of fatherhood.
I see the sacrifices he has made and continues to make, day in and day out. He works tirelessly, doing everything in his power to ensure his family’s well-being. Fatherhood is a role laden with countless responsibilities, a role that mirrors the ultimate sacrifice made by our Creator:
“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life” (John 3:16).
For our little girl, she may not yet understand or appreciate these efforts—this is the privilege she will enjoy by default. She will grow up with the love and protection of a father who is her first hero, her first example of what a man should be. Witnessing this makes me appreciate my own father more deeply.
This experience also deepens my gratitude to God. Out of His boundless love for us, He sacrificed His only Son, granting us the gift of eternal life. His promises are unwavering, and He faithfully brings them to pass according to His divine plan:
John 3:16 (NIV) For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
Fatherhood is not without its struggles. Some fathers may falter under the weight of their responsibilities, while others may lack the role models needed to guide them. Life’s challenges, personal struggles, and circumstances beyond their control can sometimes lead to shortcomings. In these moments, it’s essential to offer grace and understanding, embracing the power of forgiveness:
“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you” (Ephesians 4:32).
For those who have experienced difficulty with their fathers, remember that forgiveness is key. Our fathers, like all of us, are imperfect and carry their own burdens. But in choosing to forgive, we release ourselves from the chains of bitterness and allow healing to begin. These privileges and many more are ours simply because we are children of God. Fatherhood is a journey, full of love, challenges, and growth.
May God continue to guide all fathers as they fulfill this divine role, and may we, as their children, always show them the grace, love, and honor they deserve.
